I read a beautiful story this morning on Guideposts Magazine’s website.  I invite you to read this mother’s heartwarming words and story.

“How Will I Get to Heaven?”

When her five-year-old son wonders about how he will get to heaven, a mother assures him he will soon be able to fly with the heavenly angels.

Read the article here.

If  you stood in Katherine’s shoes, how would you bring light to your child’s unanswered questions? Where will I go after I die?  How will I find heaven?  How can I fly in heaven when I don’t know how to fly? What do I do when I miss you?

Our loved ones may not physically be present, but our memories live on.

I remember my son coming into the house, picking my up off the ground, and swinging me around in circles. I  asked him to put me down, but deep inside… I didn’t want him to let go. I miss his arms around me, yet if I close my eyes and drop into my heart, I can relive our yesterdays.

What special memory about your loved one is embedded in your heart?

“Remember me with smiles and laughter, for that is how I’ll remember you. If you can only remember me with tears, then don’t remember me at all.” ~ old Irish remembrance poem.

If you have a special memory of your child, sibling, parent, grandchild, grandparent, or friend, please feel free to share.


It’s remarkable the progress Representative Gabrielle Gifford is making.  The breathing tube has been removed, which is  miraculous at this early state.

It was a couple weeks before my son’s breathing tube was removed.  His challenges seemed insurmountable during that period, and the days, and weeks that followed.

Is it possible that the power of prayer, positive thinking,  faith, and determination to live can be attributed to Gifford’s rapid healing?  I know they played a pivotal role in my son’s recovery process.  Would love to hear others thoughts on this matter.

Seven years ago today, my son passed away, and my heart broke into a million pieces.  Even though I know he is in a better place, I miss him dearly.

My daughter and I just released 7 colorful balloons, one for each year,  for his party tonight in heaven.  It has become our way of celebrating his beautiful gift of life on earth.

Would love to hear how you celebrate and honor the loss of your loved one.


Considering the facts listed below it is inconceivable that Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI) is not a household name like Susan G. Komen’s Race for the Cure.  Rep. Gabrielle Gifford’s horrific tragedy shines light on the devastating facts that TBI is the number one world-wide cause for death and disability.  Every 23 seconds a brain injury occurs.  Was the Gifford family ready for their loved one to become a TBI statistic?  Are you?  I know I wasn’t when my son’s motorcycle collided into an on-coming pickup truck, instantly changing his life… my life in an instant.

Rep. Gifford is now responding to simple commands.  I remember those days all too well.   Yet the days that followed moved from despair to hope and back again.

Looking back into the pain and uncertainty of that unforeseeable event, I wish there was a book written by someone who walked in these same shoes… someone who could give me a day to day account of the roller-coaster-ride ahead.  I needed hope. I needed something to hold onto.

In lieu of that, I began journaling. If I couldn’t read, I could write. And I did… I wrote it all down, the good, the bad, and yes, sometimes the ugly. Now I’m on a journey to publish the story of our own family’s tragedy and subsequent miracle. I look forward to sharing more with you in the days and weeks to come.