Happy Birthday in Heaven, Pop

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Jul 042011

Missing and reflecting on my Pop, my teacher, my hero, my friend today- his 87th.
July 4, 2011

Quoting him, 1986. Looking back, Charlie expressed gratitude for his life. “I
am a very lucky man. I have neat and hardworking children (7) and soon, 20
grandchildren, work I love, and a wonderful life. My friendships are especially
important to me. For a time I fumbled the ball, but they have given me a second
chance and I am grateful. Every day is full of adventure now. And I really don’t
need more than that.”

Happy Birthday, Pop. Miss you. Bet you are lighting the heavens on fire! And don’t worry about me, Pop. I’m never, never, never going to quit! Guess I’m a chop off the old block. Love your Bird-dog, Pattie
PS Would love to hear you sing one last time, “Thank Heaven for Little Girls.”

Mother's Day 2011: A Message from Above

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May 052011


Dear Mr. Hallmark, Sir:

I am writing to you from heaven,
And though it must appear
A rather strange idea,
I see everything from here.

I just popped in to visit
Your store to find a card-
A card of love for my Mom,
As this day for her is hard. Continue reading »

Happy 30th Birthday, Bo!

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Mar 152011


Miss you, Bo Bo.  Wish I could be with you on your special day. Holding you in my heart!

Hope you finally got your balloons.  The wind drove the  first round into a tall oak tree in the back yard, and there they remain as a reminder of your 30th. The second round dodged the trees, moved into open space, and sailed all the way to heaven.

Give hugs to the family and everyone else in heaven for me.   So glad they are with you to make your day extra-ordinary… just like you.

Remember this Bo Bo, I have never stopped loving you.  You’re my angel!

Love you forever and always,

Your Mama

Seven Stages of Grief

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Mar 112011

I invite you to read my latest article on Examiner.com.

Read article here.

The Circle of Life

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Feb 212011

I invite you to read my latest article on Examiner.com/Charleston.  To leave a comment, click on the button to the right “no response” and a window will pop up. All contact information remains private.  Love to hear from you.

Read article here.

Dealing with the Unexpected: Death of a Teenage Brother or Sister

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Feb 132011

I invite you to read my second article as Charleston Grief and Bereavement Examiner.  Would love to hear your comments.

Read article here.

The Death of a Child: A Life-long Journey

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Feb 072011

Am thrilled to announce my first article as Charleston Grief and Bereavement Examiner was posted today.

Read article here.


Bridging Medicine with Spirituality

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Feb 042011


Is the world finally waking up to the possibility that medicine and spiritually are no longer separate entities?  That by combining the two, remarkable miracles can take place?  Only you can decide for yourself.

On Tuesday, Dr. Oz interviewed Dr. Issam Nemeh on his show, posing the question, “Can faith be the reason the unexplainable happens?” Visit the link below and see how Dr. Nemeh heals through prayer and his hands.

Read and view videos here.

Do you think it’s possible that profound healings can take place by bridging medicine with spirituality?

Can I fly in heaven?

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Jan 242011


I read a beautiful story this morning on Guideposts Magazine’s website.  I invite you to read this mother’s heartwarming words and story.

“How Will I Get to Heaven?”

When her five-year-old son wonders about how he will get to heaven, a mother assures him he will soon be able to fly with the heavenly angels.

Read the article here.

If  you stood in Katherine’s shoes, how would you bring light to your child’s unanswered questions? Where will I go after I die?  How will I find heaven?  How can I fly in heaven when I don’t know how to fly? What do I do when I miss you?

Our memories live on.

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Jan 232011

Our loved ones may not physically be present, but our memories live on.

I remember my son coming into the house, picking my up off the ground, and swinging me around in circles. I  asked him to put me down, but deep inside… I didn’t want him to let go. I miss his arms around me, yet if I close my eyes and drop into my heart, I can relive our yesterdays.

What special memory about your loved one is embedded in your heart?

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